tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701800475738519403.post4029148232368562135..comments2023-04-11T02:28:56.765-07:00Comments on Bear Faced Lady: Being my friendUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701800475738519403.post-49397981669087358062012-09-24T01:44:51.529-07:002012-09-24T01:44:51.529-07:00Hi Hazel, I have recently joined The Elephant in t...Hi Hazel, I have recently joined The Elephant in the Room - I saw you on there but wasn't sure how to go about saying "hello, it's me!"... I'll post a link to this blog on there now so you can see who I am :) Bear Faced Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11182040535017111963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701800475738519403.post-87206739669905541632012-09-23T09:29:30.166-07:002012-09-23T09:29:30.166-07:00I have no idea who you REALLY are but do please co...I have no idea who you REALLY are but do please come and join the rest of the "mad" ones on Facebook at The Elephant in the Room (name of person is TheElephant IntheRoom) where we share tales of grief, depression, hitting the brick wall and the small achievements in life (I managed to wash myself and brush my hair today sort of thing).<br />We share love, hugs and CHOCOLATE!Hazelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02190033400781979299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701800475738519403.post-3117726674050890172012-09-20T06:36:30.848-07:002012-09-20T06:36:30.848-07:00Hi Angie, thank you do much for your comments. I&...Hi Angie, thank you do much for your comments. I'm really touched xxBear Faced Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11182040535017111963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701800475738519403.post-86871037906195823242012-09-20T02:44:08.986-07:002012-09-20T02:44:08.986-07:00Hi
I never thought it could be put into words, but...Hi<br />I never thought it could be put into words, but you have done it. Those feelings are hard to deal with let along explain, but this post made it honest, kind, thoughtful and funny. <br />Thank you for writing this post :)<br />Angiehttp://wanderingangie.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701800475738519403.post-31380960882433237032012-09-20T02:06:57.848-07:002012-09-20T02:06:57.848-07:00I agree, that it's (for want of a better phras...I agree, that it's (for want of a better phrase) a two way street to some extent. Sadly the situation with the friend was just one example in a long line of things - which I won't go into on a blog as its too personal. Suffice to say I've been incredibly understanding for many years and not received anything in return. Bear Faced Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11182040535017111963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701800475738519403.post-92104826834792980742012-09-20T02:01:01.903-07:002012-09-20T02:01:01.903-07:00I do understand everything you are saying. As some...I do understand everything you are saying. As someone who feels very similar things right now, I get it completely.<br /><br />BUT please try to bear in mind that other people, including your friends, might feel like this too. Just as you struggle to cope when other people change plans and feel that paranoia that there must be something else going on apart from the reason they gave you, other people may feel like that too when you cancel plans.<br /><br />Try not to be hard on your friend who thought you were lying. I know that's an easy thing to say and not an easy thing to do. But she may well be experiencing similar issues herself - people often hide these things well. Your paranoia and cancelling plans may also leave other people feeling you don't care and you need them to be understanding with you that even though it may come across like that, that's not the case. I know it's hard (I really do) but try to do the same for your friend. She may need your understanding as much as you need hers.Northern Blondehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14858475138588191397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701800475738519403.post-1443725431362510272012-09-20T01:23:45.355-07:002012-09-20T01:23:45.355-07:00thanks for reading Maggie :) xxthanks for reading Maggie :) xxBear Faced Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11182040535017111963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701800475738519403.post-33131118478603524402012-09-19T15:23:52.556-07:002012-09-19T15:23:52.556-07:00I totally get the feeling of pushing away from peo...I totally get the feeling of pushing away from people when you're not at your best, because you want to give everyone your best.Maggie Bobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14277414391877510504noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701800475738519403.post-26341064833254779532012-09-19T13:58:14.969-07:002012-09-19T13:58:14.969-07:00We are legion! thanks for reading :)We are legion! thanks for reading :)Bear Faced Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11182040535017111963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701800475738519403.post-38507120427278184072012-09-19T13:54:12.808-07:002012-09-19T13:54:12.808-07:00Wow - I kind of feel like you're writing the t...Wow - I kind of feel like you're writing the thoughts in my head. I do these things too!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701800475738519403.post-7642091416073221422012-09-19T13:31:06.329-07:002012-09-19T13:31:06.329-07:00Thanks you xxThanks you xxBear Faced Ladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11182040535017111963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4701800475738519403.post-23597821560819047232012-09-19T13:18:48.820-07:002012-09-19T13:18:48.820-07:00How very well put. Forever friends. Xxx Love, frog...How very well put. Forever friends. Xxx Love, frogface.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com